New best story on Hacker News: Merry Christmas, HN

Merry Christmas, HN
736 by Thorentis | 120 comments on Hacker News.
Just wanted to wish everybody here a Merry Christmas. HN is one of those Internet communities which I would be the saddest to see go, even looking back on other communities in which I've participated over the years. I see many posts here about loneliness, nihilism, friendships (or lack thereof) and just wanted to let everybody here know that life is never hopeless, and there are always people who care, even if they're thousands of miles away. Please reach out to loved ones this season and let them know you love them. Life is short, and you never know when the last time you'll be wishing somebody a Merry Christmas will be. I wish you all the very best for 2023.

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New best story on Hacker News: Thanks Dang, Happy Holidays!

Thanks Dang, Happy Holidays!
738 by O__________O | 75 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: I am done. I give up

I am done. I give up
665 by wakana | 379 comments on Hacker News.
I'm writing this post because I'm done. I can't do this anymore. After three failed attempts at building a successful startup and spending time institutionalized, I'm giving up on my entrepreneurship dreams. I tried everything - building an audience, making sure my product actually solved a problem, getting paying customers, and writing high-quality content and contributing to the community. But no matter what I did, I couldn't seem to get anywhere. My efforts were fruitless and I'm tired of trying. I barely had 20 followers, my substack and product blogs didn't get any signups, and while I did get a few upvotes (8) on Product Hunt once, I never had a paid customer. It was as if the world was against me and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't make any progress. I remember trying to interact and hype up my fellow indiehackers on Twitter, regularly engaging with their content, but no one ever paid any attention to me or followed me back. It was like I didn't even exist in the world of entrepreneurship. And even when I did get some attention, it was short-lived and never led to anything substantial. But it's not just the lack of success that's getting me down. It's also the constant stream of digital nomad influencers on Twitter who sell extremely distorted, rosy, and often times false dreams to indie entrepreneurs like myself. They make it seem like building a successful startup is easy and anyone can do it with the right mindset and a few key tips. But the reality is that it's not that simple. It's fucking hard and it takes more than just a positive attitude to make it. I know I'm not alone in feeling this way. There are so many other indie entrepreneurs out there who are struggling and feeling like they'll never make it. If you're one of them, I want you to know that you're not alone. It's okay to feel defeated and to want to give up. But please don't give up. Keep pushing forward and don't let the failures define you. There's always a chance for success, no matter how small it may seem. But for me, I can't take it anymore. I've hit rock bottom and I have nothing left to give. To all the indie hackers, hacker news, and Reddit readers out there, please don't be fooled by the false promises of digital nomad influencers. Building a startup is hard work and it takes time. It's not as easy as they make it seem and it's not for everyone. Don't let your dreams consume you like they did for me, and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PROTECT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AT ALL COST! Don't make the same mistakes I did and realize that entrepreneurship may not be the path for you. It's okay to admit defeat and move on to something else.

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New best story on Hacker News: Serverless Video Transcription inspired by Cyberpunk 2077

Serverless Video Transcription inspired by Cyberpunk 2077
578 by pierremenard | 53 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: ByteDance confirmed it used TikTok to monitor journalists’ physical location

ByteDance confirmed it used TikTok to monitor journalists’ physical location
546 by alphabetting | 255 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: UnifiedPush: A decentralized, open-source push notification protocol

UnifiedPush: A decentralized, open-source push notification protocol
471 by mikece | 103 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Japan to invest on nuclear energy in major policy shift

Japan to invest on nuclear energy in major policy shift
467 by geox | 368 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Welcome to Comprehensive Rust

Welcome to Comprehensive Rust
457 by eecc | 169 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: WebAssembly: Docker Without Containers

WebAssembly: Docker Without Containers
408 by RebootStr | 270 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Show HN: Portable Secret – How I store my secrets and communicate privately

Show HN: Portable Secret – How I store my secrets and communicate privately
431 by mprime1 | 172 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Okta says its GitHub account hacked, source code stolen

Okta says its GitHub account hacked, source code stolen
379 by nazgulsenpai | 134 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Did insurance fire brigades let uninsured buildings burn?

Did insurance fire brigades let uninsured buildings burn?
372 by zinekeller | 401 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Apple Music deletes your original songs and replaces them with DRM'd versions

Apple Music deletes your original songs and replaces them with DRM'd versions
368 by josephcsible | 169 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: January 1, 2023 is Public Domain Day: Works from 1927 are open to all

January 1, 2023 is Public Domain Day: Works from 1927 are open to all
665 by CharlesW | 362 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Spotifyd

Spotifyd
696 by fahrradflucht | 219 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Show HN: Obsidian Canvas – An infinite space for your ideas

Show HN: Obsidian Canvas – An infinite space for your ideas
758 by ericax | 214 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Stanford's “Elimination of Harmful Language” Initiative

Stanford's “Elimination of Harmful Language” Initiative
749 by ryzvonusef | 1436 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their 40s?

Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their 40s?
695 by Deutscher | 429 comments on Hacker News.
I know the best of my life is behind me, but I need help salvaging what's left of it. I've been meaning to ask for help for a couple of years now, but only now got around to it after being scared by my first real suicidal ideation a few nights ago. HN is probably not a suitable platform for this, but /r/advice seems to be not very active and I can't post on /adv/ due to some IP range ban. There are no mental health facilities in the small town where I live. I let my professional network decay and die, and there is literally nowhere else I can get any kind of useful, actionable advice. I'm a 43-years-old single guy, NEET for the past decade. I got my Master's in the US in the late 2000s and was gainfully employed there for a few years (NOT in my field of education; long story) until I had to return to my home country to take care of my ailing father. He passed on within a year of my return, leaving my family with a financial mess, and his death took a lot out of me. I still obviously miss him, but in wallowing in depression and self-pity, I let the prime of my life pass me by. As I stand, I have no current skills related to either my education (MEng) or my previous work experience (BI Reporting/Analytics). I don't have ideas/skills/network for entrepreneurship. I had all the desires of a regular guy: a wife, kids, a house, meaningful work, etc. I mean I still do, but I guess I'm too late for the first few. Every night I promise myself to do/be better tomorrow and somehow get myself to sleep. I was once looked up to, now I'm a pity case and an example case of how not to throw one's life away. With every passing day, I am becoming more bitter, angry and disillusioned. I don't want to live like this anymore, but I don't know how to even _start_ thinking of ways to get myself out of this hole. Ideally, I would prefer to go back to the US; not only for the dollars (they're nice), but also because I actually was happy there. I'd do all the things that I didn't do enough of because I was focused on saving money and because I thought that there would always be time for them when I was more stable/settled. The good: No diseases AFAIK, no vices at all other than severe procrastination and a masterful ability to lie to myself. I have ~US$25k-equivalent in salary savings from a decade ago. Sorry if the above text is rambling and not very cohesive. I've probably also skipped over some useful information I should have provided. Please do ask. I'll take some time reflecting on your replies and then respond. Thank you.

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New best story on Hacker News: Should I step down as head of Twitter? I will abide by the results of this poll

Should I step down as head of Twitter? I will abide by the results of this poll
616 by calcifer | 567 comments on Hacker News.

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New best story on Hacker News: Ask HN: Anyone tired of everything being a subscription now?

Ask HN: Anyone tired of everything being a subscription now?
584 by CM30 | 413 comments on Hacker News.
Not newspapers or media services (though those can be annoying too), but products in general? It feels like it's getting harder and harder to just buy something in the tech world, especially when it comes to running programs on my home computer. Want a password manager? It's a SaaS now. Note taking app? SaaS. Image editor or office suite? SaaS (thanks Adobe...) This is especially annoying given I generally refuse to rent anything in life, and will go out of my way to buy something upfront simply so there's no risk of losing it if finances get worse in future (or the wrong billionaire buys the company). Yet it seems like it's getting harder to do so, especially when open source products don't exist for that domain. So yeah, why is that? And is anyone else tired of the constant barrage of subscriptions for things that should be one off purchases?

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New best story on Hacker News: Twitter suspends pg's account

Twitter suspends pg's account
1079 by operatingthetan | 670 comments on Hacker News.

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